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Published in: Journal of Family Violence 5/2010

01-07-2010 | Original Article

Is Psychological Abuse Reciprocal in Intimate Relationships? Data from a National Sample of American Adults

Authors: Diane R. Follingstad, Maryanne Edmundson

Published in: Journal of Family Violence | Issue 5/2010

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Abstract

A national sample of adults in the United States reported on presence, frequency, emotional impact, and behavioral impact of psychologically abusive behaviors in their “worst” cohabiting relationship by their partner as well as by themselves. In addition, they completed instrumentation measuring potential outcomes from much psychological maltreatment. Results from the online survey indicated that psychological abuse of an egregious nature was highly reciprocal, although overall, respondents reported that they engaged in psychological abuse less frequently than their partners and believed that their partners experienced much less negative impact from the respondents’ actions. Specific categories of psychological abuse as well as specific behaviors were also highly likely to be reciprocated. Combinations of high and low psychological abuse exhibited by the respondent and his/her partner resulted in negative outcomes whenever the partner was high in psychological abuse whether or not the respondent used these egregious tactics.
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Metadata
Title
Is Psychological Abuse Reciprocal in Intimate Relationships? Data from a National Sample of American Adults
Authors
Diane R. Follingstad
Maryanne Edmundson
Publication date
01-07-2010
Publisher
Springer US
Published in
Journal of Family Violence / Issue 5/2010
Print ISSN: 0885-7482
Electronic ISSN: 1573-2851
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-010-9311-y

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