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01-08-2017 | Original Contributions

Exploring Partners’ Experiences in Living with Patients Who Undergo Bariatric Surgery

Authors: Anna Wallwork, Lynn Tremblay, Monica Chi, Sanjeev Sockalingam

Published in: Obesity Surgery | Issue 8/2017

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Abstract

Background

Bariatric surgery is effective in assisting persons with severe obesity in achieving significant weight loss and improved health; however, success depends on one’s lifelong commitment to lifestyle modifications post-operatively. Life partners can be essential to the success of bariatric patients as they can serve as a primary resource to patients and healthcare teams. This study aimed to explore bariatric patients’ partner’s experiences in order to help inform clinical practice in bariatric care to better address patient and partner needs.

Methods

This study utilized a grounded theory analysis of ten semi-structured interviews of male partners of bariatric surgery patients to form a general explanatory framework of the partner experience.

Results

Participants described three interconnected processes of change that followed after their spouses surgeries: (1) effort put forth to engage in the surgical process with their spouses, (2) adoption of the behavioural changes made by their spouses and (3) adjustment to a “new normal”. For those who engaged in all three processes, optimism for the future and an enriching and synergistic harmonized lifestyle with their spouse was reached.

Conclusions

Bariatric surgery in one partner can impact couples’ dietary behaviours, physical and leisure activities, physical and emotional intimacy and relationship quality as a whole. Pursuing bariatric surgery as a couple is a unique process. This study highlights the necessity to approach bariatric care in a way that targets the whole spousal unit as engaging both members in lifestyle modification may improve the quality of both their health and relationship overall.
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Metadata
Title
Exploring Partners’ Experiences in Living with Patients Who Undergo Bariatric Surgery
Authors
Anna Wallwork
Lynn Tremblay
Monica Chi
Sanjeev Sockalingam
Publication date
01-08-2017
Publisher
Springer US
Published in
Obesity Surgery / Issue 8/2017
Print ISSN: 0960-8923
Electronic ISSN: 1708-0428
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s11695-017-2594-9

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