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Open Access 01-10-2021 | Addiction | Original Article

An Examination of the Lived Experience of Attending Twelve-Step Groups for Co-dependency

Authors: Ingrid Bacon, Elizabeth McKay, Frances Reynolds, Anne McIntyre

Published in: International Journal of Mental Health and Addiction | Issue 5/2021

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Abstract

This research project aimed at obtaining an in-depth analysis of the experiences of self-identified co-dependents, who chose twelve-steps groups as a way for dealing with difficulties identified as co-dependency. Interpretative phenomenological analysis (IPA) was used as the methodology for the research. Eight participants volunteered from local support groups for co-dependency in the UK. Data were collected through 3 in-depth interviews with each participant over a period of 3–6 months. A visual method was used to gain a more in-depth phenomenological perspective. It included photographs, drawings and images chosen by the participants to describe their experiences. The analysis revealed 2 contradicting and complementary themes: (1) representations of the twelve-step group as a helpful tool and (2) representations of the twelve-step group as no longer meaningful. It demonstrated that the participants found their groups useful as an initial pathway for recovery; however, it did not feature as a central aspect in their recovery, as different levels of engagement were described. The results of this study provide a base for developing a more empathic and contextualised understanding of the experience of individuals who attend twelve-step groups for co-dependency, which in turn will enable health professionals to offer support which is relevant to these individuals’ experiences.
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Title
An Examination of the Lived Experience of Attending Twelve-Step Groups for Co-dependency
Authors
Ingrid Bacon
Elizabeth McKay
Frances Reynolds
Anne McIntyre
Publication date
01-10-2021
Publisher
Springer US
Published in
International Journal of Mental Health and Addiction / Issue 5/2021
Print ISSN: 1557-1874
Electronic ISSN: 1557-1882
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s11469-020-00253-9

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