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Published in: Journal of Religion and Health 4/2017

01-08-2017 | Psychological Exploration

Emotional Detachment of Partners and the Sanctity of the Relationship with the Analyst as the Most Powerful Curative Factor

Authors: Christian Gostečnik, Tanja Repič Slavič, Saša Poljak Lukek, Tanja Pate, Robert Cvetek

Published in: Journal of Religion and Health | Issue 4/2017

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Abstract

The relationship between partners and the analyst is considered the most basic means for healing in contemporary psychoanalytic theories and analyses. It also holds as one of the most fundamental phenomenon’s of psychoanalysis, so it comes as no surprise that it has always been deliberated over as an object of great interest as well as immense controversy. This same relationship, mutually co-created by the analyst and each individual and partner in analysis, represents also the core of sanctity and sacred space in contemporary psychoanalysis.
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Metadata
Title
Emotional Detachment of Partners and the Sanctity of the Relationship with the Analyst as the Most Powerful Curative Factor
Authors
Christian Gostečnik
Tanja Repič Slavič
Saša Poljak Lukek
Tanja Pate
Robert Cvetek
Publication date
01-08-2017
Publisher
Springer US
Published in
Journal of Religion and Health / Issue 4/2017
Print ISSN: 0022-4197
Electronic ISSN: 1573-6571
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s10943-016-0278-8

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