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Published in: European Journal of Ageing 2/2009

Open Access 01-06-2009 | Review

Older adult loneliness: myths and realities

Author: Pearl A. Dykstra

Published in: European Journal of Ageing | Issue 2/2009

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Abstract

The focus in this paper is on the social domain of quality of life, and more particularly loneliness. The empirical literature on older adult loneliness is reviewed, thereby challenging three often-held assumptions that figure prominently in public debates on loneliness. The first assumption that loneliness is a problem specifically for older people finds only partial support. Loneliness is common only among the very old. The second assumption is that people in individualistic societies are most lonely. Contrary to this belief, findings show that older adults in northern European countries tend to be less lonely than those in the more familialistic southern European countries. The scarce data on Central and Eastern Europe suggest a high prevalence of older adult loneliness in those countries. The third assumption that loneliness has increased over the past decades finds no support. Loneliness levels have decreased, albeit slightly. The review notes the persistence of ageist attitudes, and underscores the importance of considering people’s frame of reference and normative orientation in analyses of loneliness.
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Metadata
Title
Older adult loneliness: myths and realities
Author
Pearl A. Dykstra
Publication date
01-06-2009
Publisher
Springer-Verlag
Published in
European Journal of Ageing / Issue 2/2009
Print ISSN: 1613-9372
Electronic ISSN: 1613-9380
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s10433-009-0110-3

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