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Open Access 01-12-2021 | Original Article

‘Don’t forget the children’: a qualitative study when a parent is at end of life from cancer

Authors: Eilís McCaughan, Cherith J. Semple, Jeffrey R. Hanna

Published in: Supportive Care in Cancer | Issue 12/2021

Abstract

Purpose

Preparation for end of life is one of the greatest challenges faced by parents with cancer who have dependent children (< 18 years old), with requirement for support from professionals. The aim of this study is to explore how parents can be best supported in relation to their children, when a parent is at end of life from cancer.

Methods

This is an interpretive qualitative study, using 79 semi-structured interviews with parents at end of life (n3), bereaved parents (n21), health and social care professionals (HSCPs) (n32) and funeral directors (n23). Data were analysed thematically and triangulated.

Results

Parents are central to preparing their children for the death of a parent. Striving for everyday ordinariness, maximising social networks, maintaining hope and making preparations for the future are helpful for families when a parent is at end of life. Most HSCPs were unaware of the challenges faced by parents at end of life, and psychosocial support was often left outside the caring realm. As a result, funeral directors noted complexities faced by the families after the death. Results are discussed under four themes: (1) communication with the children as a process, (2) coping throughout the unfolding end of life experience, (3) tension and complexities at end of life and (4) preparing for the future.

Conclusions

Parents should be reassured that by involving the children early in the end of life experience when the ill-parent is ‘well enough’ to parent enables them to be actively involved in supporting their child through one of the greatest life changing event. A number of recommendations are discussed for professionals.

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Title: ‘Don’t forget the children’: a qualitative study when a parent is at end of life from cancer
Authors: Eilís McCaughan
Cherith J. Semple
Jeffrey R. Hanna
Publication date: 01-12-2021
Publisher: Springer Berlin Heidelberg
Published in: Supportive Care in Cancer / Issue 12/2021
Print ISSN: 0941-4355
Electronic ISSN: 1433-7339
DOI: https://doi.org/10.1007/s00520-021-06341-3

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