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Couple’s Experiences When Men are Diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in the Context of Their Sexual Relationship

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Multiple Sclerosis (MS) significantly affects the sexual lives of individuals with MS and their partners. However, health professionals often feel ill-prepared to assist these clients with sexual issues. Understanding a couple’s perspective is essential for health professionals in providing relevant support and interventions. This study aimed to understand the impact of MS on couples’ sexual relationships when the male partner was diagnosed with MS during the relationship. Using a qualitative approach, a description of four couples’ “lived experiences” was gathered through semi-structured interviews with each partner separately. Communication was identified as a key element in coping with the impact of MS. Men with MS were more likely to comply with changes while women tended to take on martyr roles to protect their partners. Findings suggest clinicians should facilitate open communication, recognize each partner’s intimacy needs and assist both partners to establish meaningful roles.

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    Shaniff Esmail, Jane Huang, Isabel Lee & Tanya Maruska

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Esmail, S., Huang, J., Lee, I. et al. Couple’s Experiences When Men are Diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in the Context of Their Sexual Relationship. Sex Disabil 28, 15–27 (2010). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11195-009-9144-x

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